Funeral

FUNERAL RITUAL
The person to be buried should be buries wrapped in a cloth. Her body should 
decompose as quickly as possible to nourish other life. It may not be legally 
possible to be buried like this and so burial of ashes from a cremation would be 
preferable to a hermetically sealed casket.

People should be encouraged to make their wills long before death specifying the 
style of their burial. It is extremely important for people whose families do 
not approve of their religious choice that they specify in detail these matters.

There are three parts to the ritual – parts one and three preferably to be 
performed in a hall and publicly, part two at the graveside. Only the closest 
friends, coven-mates and family should be at the graveside.

This ritual is for cases when the dead person was not comforted and assisted at 
the moment of death. Even under the best circumstances the spirit will sometimes 
remain partly tied to the corpse, in a state of greater or lesser awareness and 
confusion and pain for a period of time unless assisted to journey on. And so 
the dead person is a primary guest at the funeral, because she may very well 
need to be there. In addition, the members of her family and coven and her 
friends can assist her in journeying on and themselves in grieving by 
acknowledging her and blessing her.

THE FUNERAL RITUAL

PART ONE:

The Priestess and Priest, dressed in green and black respectively, shall conduct 
the ceremony. Their assistants, dressed in red and black, shall assist, act as 
ushers and lead Part 3.

The ritual space will be prepared as follows: cleared of furniture, with a 
candle at each of the cardinal directions and two flanking the main altar. The 
corpse should be laid out at the main altar.

Sweep and Cast the Circle as usual. (As the mourners wait at the edge to the 
ritual space, the Priestess shall sweep out the Circle widdershins (counter-
clockwise) while concentrating and grounding. She shall replace the broom by the 
main altar, pick up the sword and cast the Circle widdershins while saying:

"This is a place which is not a place
in a time which is not a time
halfway between the worlds of the Gods
and of mortals."

Bring people into the Circle as usual (the Priestess takes the Priest by the 
hands and pulls him into the Circle. They turn in a half-turn widdershins as he 
comes in and then he pulls in the next person and so on until everyone is in the 
Circle, after which she takes up the sword and closes off the doorway left it 
the Circle through which people had entered.)

Call the directions Widdershins, beginning with the West. The assistants should 
do this and the directions should have been assigned ahead of time.

West:
"As the sun sets
So our friend has left us
The water of our tears like the salt water of the sea, and
Life the water of our mother's womb, blesses this Circle."

South:
"As life is a day
So our friend has passed into the night
The fire of our life, the memories and courage, the
Strength given to us by our friend blesses this Circle."

East:
"As all that falls shall rise again
So our friend will be reborn
The are we breathe, this treasure of our life, the
Compassionate caring we give each other blesses this Circle."

North:
"As the Earth forms us
So our friend shall return to the earth
Our Mother feeds us and clothes us. She gives us
Everything and in the end she takes our bodies back. 
And Earth blesses this Circle."

Drawing Down The Moon and Sun. The Priestess and Priest recognize the presence 
of the Gods in the Circle and specifically heighten their own awareness of the 
presence of the divine, acting from the divine part of themselves through the 
ritual.

Priest: "You are the Goddess, as are all women. You give birth. You feed the 
children from your own body. And You take them back for a new birth. World 
without end, eternal creation."

Priestess: "And you are the God, as are all men. You are born. You live and You 
die, only to be born again. All-Father, All-Destroyer, ruler of the land of the 
dead."

Together: "Birth and death." Over and over and over.

The Priestess turns and addresses the corpse:

"You are dead. None should ever die alone. I am here to help you with your 
death."

"There is only love, the greatest Mystery. I reach behind my fear. I open my 
heart and my eyes in the light of this love."

"Our lives are formed of many others and we form other lives in turn. And when 
we are here with you after you die, we honor your life."

"There is only love. The love of the Goddess gives birth to the universe. The 
love of our parents gives birth to us. The love of our friends and family 
sustains our life. Kindness, love and pleasure – we are formed from these and we 
form each other. When we die we leave them behind us."

"You have left your family. You have left sex and even gender. You cannot be a 
woman or a man and enter the other world. You have left behind your body. None 
who have bodies can pass into the other world."

"The Goddess is taking you back now, the Great Mother. Her womb is the Earth 
that will receive your body. Your body is a seed now, a seed of other lives."

"In a sacred space we have gathered to honor you and to give you some things to 
take on the journey with you."

Priest – addresses the Circle:

"Please come up now if you can and speak of your dead. Tell him/her whatever you 
need to. Help in the journey into death."

Address the corpse:

"I will remember you at Samhain and bless you then."

The circle will chant, quietly:

"We all come from the Goddess
and to Her we shall return
life a drop of rain
falling to the ocean
We all come from the Horned One
And through Him we are reborn
Corn and grain, corn and grain
All that falls shall rise again."

Wile everyone who wishes to comes to the main altar and talks to the dead 
person.

When everyone who wishes to has talked, the Priestess will say:

"Journey on now, sister. We will follow when we can. May you be born again at 
the same time and in the same place as those you knew and loved in this life. 
May you know them again and love them again."

And now the body will be ceremoniously wrapped and the Circle ended. The 
Directions will be dismissed as the body is being wrapped with the following:

East – "The Sun will rise again."

South – "Life continues."

West – "Love is all that we can be sure of."

North – "Only the Mother is eternal."

A pillar candle shall be lit after the body is wrapped and left to burn while 
the crown files out of the Circle.

PART TWO:

The grave has been dug and prepared. A Circle will be cast around the grave and 
the directions called as follows:

East: "We welcome the spirits of the Ancestors and the honored dead not yet 
reborn."

South: "We welcome our heroes and inspirations."

West: "We welcome the Ancestors to incarnate in our children and grandchildren 
and in our families."

North: "We welcome our deaths and our lives."

The body is gently lowered into the grave.

Priestess and Priest bless food and drink:

"It is not we that bless this food and drink
But it which blesses us.
In its nature it nourishes our bodies
And in sharing food and drink
We create community."

Each person takes a drink and pours some into the grave, eats something and 
places part in the grave. When all have finished the grave is filled in.

The directions are dismissed quietly with an informal thanks. The mourners head 
back to the reception.

A glass of wine and some cakes are left behind at the grave side.

PART THREE:

The ushers will direct people to food and drink and quiet conversation to 
continue while the Priestess, Priest and the dead person's coven-mates and 
closest people proceed to the grave with the body.

When they have finished their private part of the ritual they will rejoin 
everyone else for a reception at which stories of notable things done by the 
head person and prayers are offered up.
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